LGBTQ+ Paths to Parentage Security
Confirmatory adoption
Availability to LGBTQ parents: Some states
Force of a court order; guaranteed full faith and credit in all states: Yes
Where available, open to married parents of any gender: Yes
Where available, open to unmarried parents of any gender: Yes
Requires homestudy, background check, notice to gamete donor, etc.: No
Requires lawyer: Some
Protects child from moment of birth: No
Stepparent adoption
Availability to LGBTQ parents: All states
Force of a court order; guaranteed full faith and credit in all states: Yes
Where available, open to married parents of any gender: Yes
Where available, open to unmarried parents of any gender: No
Requires homestudy, background check, notice to gamete donor, etc.: Some (usually waived)
Requires court appearance: Yes
Requires lawyer: Some
Protects child from moment of birth: No
Co-parent (second-parent) adoption
Availability to LGBTQ parents: Some states
Force of a court order; guaranteed full faith and credit in all states: Yes
Where available, open to married parents of any gender: Yes
Where available, open to unmarried parents of any gender: Some
Requires homestudy, background check, notice to gamete donor, etc.: Some (waived in some states)
Requires court appearance: Some (waived in some states)
Requires lawyer: Some
Protects child from moment of birth: No
Judgment of Parentage
Availability to LGBTQ parents: Some states
Force of a court order; guaranteed full faith and credit in all states: Yes
Where available, open to married parents of any gender: Some
Where available, open to unmarried parents of any gender: Some
Requires homestudy, background check, notice to gamete donor, etc.: No
Requires court appearance: Yes
Requires lawyer: Some
Protects child from moment of birth: Yes, if done before birth
Voluntary Acknowledgment of Parentage/Acknowledgment of Parentage
Availability to LGBTQ parents: Some states
Force of a court order; guaranteed full faith and credit in all states: Yes
Where available, open to married parents of any gender: Some
Where available, open to unmarried parents of any gender: Yes
Requires homestudy, background check, notice to gamete donor, etc.: No
Requires court appearance: No
Requires lawyer: No
Protects child from moment of birth: Yes, if done at birth