How to Get Married in Massachusetts |
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| The process for
getting married in Massachusetts basically requires an eligible couple to
submit an application for a license and pay a fee to any city or town clerk in Massachusetts. After a
three-day waiting period (unless it has been waived by a court), the
couple will receive the license from the clerk, and must then have the
marriage solemnized (i.e., have a ceremony in Massachusetts) within 60 days of filing the
application. Once the ceremony has been performed, the person who
performed it will state the time and place of the wedding on the license,
sign it, and send it back to the city or town where the couple received
it. The clerk will then register the marriage and the couple can receive
an official certificate of their marriage.
Massachusetts does not have a residency requirement for marriage, but an old law from 1913 was revived to deny marriage licenses to same-sex couples from other states unless they intend to reside in Massachusetts. GLAD filed a lawsuit challenging the constitutionality of this law and the final decision by the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court was that same-sex couples from other states could marry in Massachusetts provided there was no statute, constitutional provision or controlling appellate decision in their state that prohibited same-sex couples from marrying. Since most states have one of these prohibitions, at this time the only same-sex couples who can marry in Massachusetts are residents of Massachusetts, Rhode Island, New Mexico, or residents of any state who intend to reside in Massachusetts.
The following sets forth the details for this process -- who can marry,
how you get a license, what you need to bring with you, the waiting
period, and who can perform the ceremony.
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Non-Massachusetts
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Other Special
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Who can marry?To be eligible to marry in Massachusetts, both parties
must:
UNDER MASSACHUSETTS LAW -
- Be 18 years of age or older (or else have a judge’s permission to marry
younger)
Any person under the age of 18 who wants to marry must obtain a court order
from the probate or district court of his or her city or town of residence.
The minor’s parents or guardians must go with him or her to court and consent
to the marriage.1
- Not be married to anyone else (any divorce must be final at the time of
application)
If you are married to another person, you cannot marry your partner until
you have divorced the other person.2 Entering into another marriage before you
have legally ended the first is a crime punishable by up to five years in
prison or two and a half years in jail, or by a fine of up to $500.3 Governor
Romney has directed the clerks to ask for proof of divorce, but because this
requirement is contrary to past practice, it is not clear whether the clerks
will actually require documentary proof of your divorce. If you have such
proof, you should take it with you. If you do not, at a minimum, you should
know the date of the court judgment and the court that issued the divorce and
be prepared to go to another clerk’s office if the first one demands proof you
cannot provide. If you encounter this problem, please let GLAD know . See the section, “Other Special Circumstances”, for information about getting married in Massachusetts if your relationship is already legally recognized in some way.
If you intend to marry someone of the same sex and reside in another state, not be a resident of a state that expressly prohibits same-sex couples from marrying there, unless you “intend to reside in Massachusetts”. See the section on “Non-Massachusetts Residents” for more information.
1 G.L. ch. 207, § 25.
2 G.L. ch. 207, §§ 4, 6.
3G.L. ch. 272, § 15.
4G.L. ch. 207, §§ 1, 2.
5G.L. ch. 207, § 3.
How do we get a marriage
license?
Step one: Both people who are marrying
must appear in person 6 at any city or town hall7 and fill out the
application form called a notice of intention of marriage. (Note: Prior to January 28, 2005, in order to receive the marriage license from the town or city clerk, both parties needed to get a blood test, but this is no longer a part of the marriage licensing process.) This
form requires the following information for each party:
- Name
- Date of Birth
- Occupation
- Address of residence
- Statement of Intent to Reside, if applicable
- Number of previous marriages and how the last marriage ended (death or
divorce)
- Existence of present or former Civil Union or state-created Domestic
Partnership, and dissolution status, if any
- Birthplace
- Full name of parents (including middle and maiden names)
- Gender
- Disclosure of whether applicants related by blood or marriage
Each
applicant must swear before the clerk that all information in the form is true
and that no legal impediment exists to the marriage.8 (See below for information
on any impediments for non-Massachusetts couples.) Any false statement is
punishable by a fine of up to $100. 9
Applicants must also complete a supplement to the notice of intention that is
sent to the state Registry of Vital Records and Statistics. The Registry may
make the information in this supplemental form, which includes each applicant’s
name, residence, and social security number (or reason for not
having a social security number), available to state and federal agencies for
purposes of child support enforcement or other purposes required by law.10
The city and and town clerks charge a fee for processing the notice of intention of marriage and issuing the license. Since this fee varies, you should contact the clerk in the city or town where you plan to apply.
Find out where to go and
what to expect in your town.
Step two: After a three-day
waiting period, go back to the city or town hall where you filed your
application and receive the license. The license is valid for 60 days
starting from the day after you filed the notice of intention (i.e., if you file
the notice of intention on May 17th, you must have your marriage solemnized by
July 16th).11
Step three:
Have a wedding ceremony within the state of Massachusetts. The marriage must be solemnized by some official
(like a Justice of the Peace) or member of the clergy who
is authorized by the state to perform marriages. He or she will then
send the license back to the clerk and your marriage will be officially
registered by the state.
6 Both members of the couple do not have to file this form in person if one of you is in the military, but in that case, there is a whole other set of concerns raised by the military’s “Don’t ask, don’t tell” policy. Also, only one of you need be present if the other is incarcerated.
7G.L. ch. 207, § 19.
8G.L. ch. 207, § 20.
9G.L. ch. 207, § 52.
10G.L. ch. 207, § 20.
11G.L. ch. 207, § 28.
What do we need to
bring with us when we apply?In order to receive a marriage license, both members
of the couple must bring:
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Proof of age Some cities and towns require applicants to demonstrate
their ages (such as by showing a certified birth record or passport),
particularly if an applicant is not much older than 18, before they will issue
the licenses.12 Even if the city does not require this proof, if a clerk does
not believe you are over 18, he or she may not issue the license without
proof, requiring you to return and start the application process over.13 Clerks
have been advised to accept the following records as proof of age (stated in
order of preference): (1) original or certified copy of birth certificate; (2)
original or certified copy of baptismal certificate; passport; (4) life
insurance policy; (5) employment certificate; (6) school record; (7)
immigration record; (8) naturalization record; or (9) a court record.
Money
The city and town clerks charge a fee for processing the notice
of intention of marriage and issuing the license. This fee varies and so you should contact the clerk in the city or town where you intend to apply. Because some clerks and courts take checks and some do
not, better be on the safe side and bring cash.
In addition, there is usually an extra fee if the couple wants a certified
copy of the marriage certificate after the marriage has been solemnized and
registered, which ranges from about $5 to $15 per copy.
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Proof of Residency
Due to the enforcement of the 1913 law discussed in the Introduction, clerks may not issue marriage licenses to any same-sex couples from other states that expressly prohibit same-sex couples from marrying there unless that couple “intends to reside in Massachusetts.” Thus, city and town clerks now must satisfy themselves about where all applicants reside and where they intend to reside following the marriage.
12For example, the city of Boston requires proof of age for all applicants under 24 years of age.
13G.L. ch. 207, § 33A.
How do I change my surname?
In addition to being a
marriage application form, the Notice of Intention of Marriage form also
operates as a legal name change document should you choose to change your name
upon marriage. Questions 3A and 11A on the Notice of Intention ask for the
surname you wish to use after marriage. By completing that question, your
marriage certificate will identify you by your new last name. A certified copy of
your marriage certificate will allow you to change you name with the Social
Security Administration. If you intend to marry but are not sure you want to
change your name, you can always change your name at a later point. The
advantage to changing your name at the time of marriage is that it allows you to
avoid the $165 fee for initiating a name change through the usual process at the probate court.
The usual process is still available to you if you choose to wait. Also, you should be aware that the Passport Agency, citing the federal 1996 Defense of Marriage Act, is refusing to honor the name change on the marriage license and is requiring couples to go through Probate Court to have their names changed.
What if a city or town
clerk refuses to let us apply?
City and town clerks
are government employees whom we assume will carry out the law they are
obligated to follow. If you and your partner are Massachusetts residents and
encounter a clerk who refuses to issue a marriage license because you are a
same-sex couple, please contact GLAD. If you and your
partner are not Massachusetts residents, see the section on “Non-Massachusetts Residents”.
What’s the story on the
three-day waiting period?Massachusetts law requires couples to file the
notice of intention of marriage at least three days before their wedding. 14 The
license will not be issued until at least the third day from the filing of the
notice.15 To be clear, in computing the three-day period, you do not count the day
that you submitted the notice (i.e., if you submit the notice on Monday, the
earliest you can receive your license is Thursday), but you do count Sundays and
holidays.16
14G.L. ch. 207, § 19.
15 G.L. ch. 207, § 28.
16G.L. ch. 207, § 19.
Can I get married without
waiting the requisite three days?
It
is possible to obtain a waiver of the three-day notice period from a Massachusetts
District Court (also referred to as a municipal court) or Probate Court,
but this process is not recommended if you are a non-Massachusetts resident
or have an existing marriage (even if to the same person). Also, there
is no guarantee that this waiver will enable you to marry one the same day.
At some courts, it may take time to find an available judge to grant the
waiver, and the actual processing of the requisite marriage documents (including
the marriage application, court waiver, and marriage license) is time intensive,
requiring the use manual typewriters by both clerk and court staff.
Obtaining a
waiver
Both
the District Court and the Probate Court “recommend” that couples follow
steps 1-5 below, in order, to obtain a waiver. However, both courts
will permit couples to start at step 2 but caution that this shortcut could
result in disappointment if the court grants the waiver but the city or town
clerk ultimately refuses to process your notice of intention to marry.
Also, because the city and town clerks will need time to process your notice
of intention, you can get the ball rolling by starting at the city or town
clerk’s office and then proceeding to the courthouse. This “recommended”
approach may shorten the time you have to wait when you arrive at the city
or town clerk’s office with the court waiver in hand.
- A couple must file a notice of intention to marry with a city or town
clerk. (Out of an excess of caution, you may want to obtain a copy
of your completed notice of intention to marry to take to the courthouse
if case a court chooses to require proof that the “recommended” procedure
has been followed, but you are not expressly required to do so).
- Both members of the couple must go together to either the Registry
in any Probate Court or the Clerk’s Office in any District Court.
- At court, the couple must request a certificate waiving the notice
period 17 (called a “Marriage Without Delay” form), pay a fee -- $65 in
Probate Court, $195 in District Court (in cash, some courts do not take checks).
If you started at Step 1, you may wish to present the completed copy of your
notice of intention to marry.
- The couple will be granted access to a judge who will ask the couple
questions concerning their qualifications to marry in Massachusetts.
These questions may include: whether each applicant is older than 18 years
old; whether either has already been married, and if so, whether any pre-existing
divorce is final; and where each party resides. Once the judge is satisfied
that the couple is eligible to marry, the court, in its discretion, may grant
a certificate authorizing the waiver of the three-day notice period.
There is no specific reason you need to give in response to a question asking
why you want the waiver. It should suffice to say that you intend to
get marry within the next three days or simply that you do not want to wait
any longer to marry.
- With the newly issued certificate from the court in hand, the couple
must return to the same city or town clerk where they filed their notice
of intention to marry and present their certificate from the court.
If you started at step 2, you can go to any city or town clerk’s office of
your choosing. Upon receipt of your court waiver, the city or town
clerk should prepare the marriage license for issuance without awaiting the
expiration of the three-day notice period.
Though this process may seem relatively straightforward, there are a few details worth considering.
First, if you follow the courts’ “recommended” procedures, the entire process
will require two trips to the clerk’s office and one trip to the courthouse.
(If you start at Step 2, this shortcut will allow you to make one trip to
the courthouse and one trip to the city or town clerk). Please understand
that the waiver certificate from the court and the marriage license from
the clerk are processed manually, using typewriters. Thus, the process may take longer than you anticipate.
Second, if you or your partner are unsure of whether a clerk will allow you
to marry (maybe because you have an existing
marriage), it is advisable to simply wait the three days to avoid the court
waiver process which may -- depending on the application process -- needlessly
subject your application to a second level of review, or force you to pay
$65 or $195 for a waiver that a city or town clerk refuses to process.
17 G. L. c. 207, §30.
Who can perform the
ceremony?There are three options: (1) in-state Justice of the Peace (JP) or
clergy; (2) out-of-state clergy, only if special permission granted by the
governor; and (3) a specially designated “Justice of the Peace for-a-day,” only
if special permission granted by the governor.
First, any willing in-state justice of the peace, minister, rabbi, priest,
imam or other person authorized by a faith community that has filed information
about the authorized persons with the state secretary’s office can solemnize a
marriage in Massachusetts. 18
Justices of the Peace (JPs) can be found through www.findajp.com/findmass.htm. We do not know and cannot
vouch for how friendly these folks will be. Regardless of their personal
opinions, JPs are state officials whom we assume will carry out the law they are
obligated to follow. If you and your partner are Massachusetts residents and
encounter a JP who refuses to solemnize your marriage because you are a same-sex
couple, GLAD recommends moving on to another officiant to perform your ceremony
-- do not let a discriminatory JP stand in your way of your marriage. Please let
us know about the discriminatory JP so we can respond appropriately.
JPs cannot charge more than $75 for solemnizing a marriage in his or her home
community or $125 for a ceremony elsewhere in Massachusetts. They cannot require
any additional charge for travel, or for providing flowers, music a
photographer, or a location for the ceremony. They may charge more for
prenuptial counseling, rehearsals or other special requests, however, so long as
the amount of these extras is given to the couple in writing at least 48 hours
before the scheduled services. Additionally, if the justice of the peace is a
municipal employee and the marriage is taking place at a municipal building
during regular business hours, the fee can’t exceed the limits set by the
municipality.19
You can ask at the clerk’s office about this information.
Second, out-of-state clergy may perform a ceremony in Massachusetts
if they receive authorization from the State. The clergy person needs to
contact:
Secretary of the Commonwealth Public Records Division
One Ashburton Place, Room 1719
Boston, MA 02108
617-727-2836
This can be done either
before or after the wedding takes place, but authorization cannot be obtained
earlier than four weeks before the wedding. The clergy person will receive
an application and two certificates (a white one and a blue one), all of
which must be filled out and returned. The Secretary’s office will send
the correct certificate to the city or town hall where the license is obtained
- the white one if it is returned before the wedding, or the blue one if
it is returned after.20
Third, it is possible for a layperson (a non-minister or non-justice of the
peace, such as a friend or family member) to obtain special one-time permission from the Governor's office
to perform a particular marriage on a particular date in a particular city. This process requires
the prospective officiant to submit an application to the Governor's office at least six weeks before the wedding,
along with a registration fee of $25 payable to the Commonwealth of Massachusetts and a letter of reference written by someone other than the people to be married stating the high standard of character of the proposed officiant. Once these are submitted and approved, the proposed officiant will receive a Certificate of Solemnization from the Secretary of the Commonwealth, which must be turned in with the marriage certificate to the city/town hall that issued the marriage license after the ceremony has been performed. The Governor may revoke the officiant’s designation, but only for cause-- a.k.a. not for discriminatory reasons. For more information or to get a copy of the application, you can contact the Governor’s Appointments Office at (617) 725-4080, ext. 35339, or see www.sec.state.ma.us/pre/premar/marone.htm. If the wedding date approaches and you have not received permission, you may want to consider the other two options (outlined above) for having a marriage solemnized in Massachusetts.
18 G.L. ch. 207, § 38.
19 G.L. ch. 262, § 35.
20 G.L. ch. 207, § 39.
Do we need witnesses for
the ceremony?Massachusetts law does not require that witnesses be present
for a civil ceremony. If a member of the clergy is marrying you, however,
you might want to ask whether religious doctrines require witnesses.
Are there still efforts underway to stop same-sex couples from marrying in Massachusetts?
Opponents of equality initiated several last minute legal maneuvers to block licenses from issuing on May 17, 2004, but those efforts were unsuccessful and the Goodridge decision was implemented as scheduled. It took many months, but finally all of those last ditch attempts to overturn or delay implementation of the Goodridge decision were defeated by GLAD in court.
Although the Legislature narrowly approved a constitutional amendment proposal in March 2004 to define marriage as only between one man and one woman and to create civil unions for same-sex couples, that proposal was defeated in September 2005.
Also, in September 2005, the Attorney General certified a citizen’s initiated constitutional amendment proposal that would define marriage as only between a man and a woman and, unlike the earlier amendment, would not automatically create civil unions. GLAD unsuccessfully tried to stop this amendment from going forward through a court case challenging its constitutionality. In order to become a constitutional amendment, this proposal had to be approved by two consecutive sessions of the Constitutional Convention, and then be approved by the voters in November 2008. It was approved by the legislature on January 2, 2007, but then was defeated on June 14, 2007, by a vote of 151 to 45.
Thus, the right of eligible same-sex couples to marry in Massachusetts is secure.
Non-Massachusetts Residents
Can I get married in Massachusetts if
I live in another state?
Massachusetts does not have a residency requirement for marriage, BUT one old, local law – dating from 1913 – says that non-residents may not marry in Massachusetts if their marriage would be expressly prohibited if contracted in their home state.21 Massachusetts Governor Romney revived this old law and used it as a basis for instructing clerks to deny marriage licenses to same-sex couples from all other states.
GLAD felt that the state’s application of this law was discriminatory and filed a suit, Cote-Whitacre v Department of Public Health, to challenge it. On March 30, 2006, the Supreme Judicial Court (SJC) of Massachusetts issued a decision in this case clarifying the criteria that must be met for determining which non-residents can marry in Massachusetts.
Subsequently, a Massachusetts trial court judge, interpreting the SJC’s decision, determined that Rhode Island same-sex couples are able to marry in Massachusetts, without having to express an intent to reside in Massachusetts (see GLAD’s publication Marrying in Massachusetts: A Guide for Rhode Island Same-Sex Couples). In July 2007, the Massachusetts Department of Public Health determined that New Mexico same-sex couples are also entitled to marry in Massachusetts.
If you reside in a state other than Massachusetts, Rhode Island or New Mexico, the only way you may marry in Massachusetts is if you express an intent to relocate to Massachusetts after the marriage.
If you are not allowed to marry in Massachusetts and there is a reason you need to marry immediately, there is a more practical option to consider: Canada. Canada does not have a residency requirement and all its provinces and territories allow same-sex couples from the United States to marry there right now. For the reasons discussed in greater depth below, a Massachusetts marriage license issued to you by mistake or under false pretenses may cause your marriage to be questioned in ways that a Canadian marriage license would not. See our publication, What Do I Need to Know About Getting Married in Canada?
21G.L. ch. 207,§§ 11, 12.
Can I get married in Massachusetts if I my partner resides in Massachusetts? For dual-state
couples (where one of you lives in Massachusetts and the other does not),
whether and how this statute will be applied to you depends on your plans after
you marry. If the out-of-state partner intends to continue living in his or her
home state, then the statute will pose an obstacle. If, however, the
out-of-state partner intends to reside in Massachusetts after the marriage, then
the marriage license should be issued without a problem. The out-of-state
partner will likely have to provide proof of this intent, such as a new driver’s
license, proof of in state employment, his or her name on a new lease or
mortgage, utility bills, an application for a parking permit, etc.
How will the clerks
determine whether I reside in Massachusetts? New marriage
application forms require applicants to indicate that they either reside or
intend to reside in Massachusetts. Evidence of residence may be satisfied by
showing some type of document confirming your intentions. Alternatively, the
clerk may (or may not) simply choose to rely upon your representations on the
Notice of Intention. Please be aware that your signature on that document
operates as a sworn affidavit signed under the pains and penalties of perjury.
We do not know which clerks rely solely on the sworn statement and which require one (or possibly more) piece(s) of documentary evidence. The clerks have been instructed that documentary evidence of residency may include a utility bill; bank or credit card statement; telephone listing; current voter registration; employment or business address; driver’s license; automobile registration; copy of state or federal tax return; deed, purchase, or sale, or lease for residential property; or some other document that demonstrates where a person resides. If you believe that you are a Massachusetts resident (or intend to reside in Massachusetts following the marriage) but cannot satisfy the clerk that you do in fact qualify to marry, GLAD recommends moving on to another clerk’s office. If you believe the clerk is refusing to accept valid proof of residency because you are a same-sex couple, after you have had your marriage processed and solemnized elsewhere, please let GLAD know so that we can respond accordingly.
What if I am a resident of more than one
state?
Although the clerks will allow some latitude
for you to select your own residence, GLAD recommends that you consult an
attorney before selecting Massachusetts as your place of residence if you
do not consider Massachusetts to be your primary place of residence. A person’s
declaration of residency may have unintended adverse effects on his or her
tax liability, immigration status, probation status, or ability to run for
governor, for example. In fact, we have learned that the Massachusetts Department
of Revenue will be looking closely at the tax obligations of those who claim
Massachusetts residency. Moreover, if you elect to declare Massachusetts
as your residence and you do not have a legally supportable basis for doing
so, you may run the risk that your license will be challenged for fraud.
As noted above, acquiring your license under false pretenses, even if done
inadvertently, may cast a legal cloud over the validity of your marriage.
Should I pretend that I am a Massachusetts
resident? Absolutely not. We know that
proof of residency may be easy to acquire and that some clerks will rely on your
statement without asking for documentary proof, but under no circumstances
should you misrepresent your status as a resident of another state, if that is
in fact the case. Acquiring your license under false pretenses may expose you to
a fine of up to $100,22 but more importantly, it will cast a legal cloud over the
validity of your marriage. When you return to your home state, you may well have
greater difficulty proving the validity of your marriage, if (or when) you are
forced to do so. Those who wish to deny the validity of your marriage (which may
or may not include a government agency in your home state, your employer, or
even hostile family members) may attack your marriage claiming that
Massachusetts never should have issued you a license in the first place. Even
though states should recognize marriage licenses validly issued and solemnized
elsewhere, you will not have the benefit of this presumption if you obtain your
license under false pretenses. Under every imaginable circumstance, a valid
marriage license from Canada will be more valuable to you than a Massachusetts
marriage license acquired by fraud.
22 G.L. ch. 207, § 52.
What if I disclose that I am a resident of another state, and the clerk grants me a license anyway?
Although some city and town clerks initially granted marriage licenses to same-sex couples from other states in light of the declaration in the Goodridge decision that same-sex couples should no longer be denied marriage rights by the government, those cities and towns have since suspended the issuance of marriage licenses to out-of-staters who indicate that they intend to live outside Massachusetts after the marriage, unless the couple resides in Rhode Island or New Mexico.
Out-of-state couples, who married in Massachusetts in 2004 despite truthfully disclosing their intention not to reside in Massachusetts, should consult GLAD’s publication, Legal Issues for Non-Massachusetts Same-Sex Couples Who Married in Massachusetts, for the current status of their marriage after the Supreme Judicial Court’s March 2006 Cote-Whitacre decision.
What if I do have plans to move to Massachusetts
in the near future? Questions 6A
and 14A on the Notice of Intention ask: “If not a Massachusetts resident, I
intend to reside in: _____.” If you have a present intention to establish a new
home or residence in Massachusetts in the near future and can satisfy the clerk
that your intent to reside in Massachusetts is genuine, the clerk should grant
you a marriage license. A clerk may satisfy himself or herself about where a
person intends to reside by examining some type of confirmatory documentary
proof or by accepting your sworn statement of intention. The clerks have been
instructed that applicants can satisfy the “intends to reside” requirement even
if a specific address or town has not been selected. For example, if you have
been admitted to a Massachusetts school and you and your partner intend to
reside in Massachusetts in the fall, the clerk should conclude that you intend
to reside in Massachusetts. A vague intent to someday have a residence in
Massachusetts is insufficient. If a clerk refuses to accept your sworn
statement, you should try another clerk’s office and let GLAD know of the
difficulty you encountered. On a cautionary note, your marriage may be subject
to challenge if you indicate an intent to reside in Massachusetts, obtain a
license on that basis, and never follow through on your stated intentions.
How do I become a Massachusetts
resident?There is no hard and fast rule about how one becomes a
Massachusetts resident. The Massachusetts Citizen Information Service
states, “There is no formal procedure for establishing a legal residence in
Massachusetts. Voter registration, automobile registration, a driver’s license,
the appearance of a person’s name on a city or town street list, and rent,
utility, mortgage or telephone bills normally provide tangible proof of
residence. However, individual public or private agencies or institutions may
have their own requirements for proof of residence.”23
The bottom
line is that for purposes of the marriage licensing statutes, the parties must
reside here and intend to continue residing here indefinitely.
23www.state.ma.us/sec/cis/ciswel/weltomas.htm
What if I am a resident of another
country?
The Commonwealth has instructed clerks to apply the 1913 law (e.g., M.G.L. c. 207, §§11 and 12) to same-sex couples from other countries as well as same-sex couples from other states. Consequently, at the current time, same-sex couples from other countries, where same-sex couples are expressly prohibited from marrying there, cannot marry in Massachusetts. If you believe that your home country’s marriage laws do not expressly prohibit marriage for same-sex couples and a clerk will not issue you a marriage license, please contact GLAD.
Other Special Circumstances
Can I get married in Massachusetts if I have a Civil Union?
Yes, so long as you intend to marry the same
person with whom you already have a civil union. However, if you have a civil
union with one person and wish to marry another person, GLAD recommends
dissolving your civil union first, even if the clerk will allow you to marry.
If you plan to marry the same person:If you are contemplating marrying
the same person with whom you have a civil union, GLAD sees no statutory
impediment to doing so, as your civil union is not a marriage and your civil
union did not give you an existing former spouse -- only a present one. 24 City and
town clerks have been instructed to allow persons with civil unions to marry if
they are otherwise qualified to marry in Massachusetts. Nonetheless, the clerks
will require you to disclose on the Notice of Intention form whether you have a
civil union, and if so, whether it has been dissolved. This information is being
collected for statistical purposes only and should not affect whether you are
eligible to marry. If you encounter difficulty obtaining a marriage license
because of your civil union, please contact GLAD. Further, the legal effects of
marrying your civil union spouse remains unclear, however, and may play out in
different ways regarding when different types of spousal protections attach to
your relationship.
If you plan to marry a different person:
While the law on this is not
clear, GLAD believes that if you have previously entered into a civil union with
a person other than your intended spouse, you should not enter into a marriage
in Massachusetts until that union is dissolved. Civil Unions are not
marriages, but they do create a legal spousal relationship. For example, under
Vermont law, a person with a civil union may not marry someone else25 and a
married person may not enter into a civil union with someone else.26 Under Connecticut law, a person with a civil union or marriage may not enter into a civil union with someone else.27
Under New Hampshire law, a person with a marriage or civil union may not enter into a civil union with someone else. Massachusetts
law, which states that a marriage contracted while either party has a former
spouse living is void,28 was contemplating marriage and its resulting spousal
relationship, not civil unions. This is where the lack of legal clarity comes
from, but what seems clear is that if you had a civil union with a person other
than the person you are seeking to marry, you have a former spouse, and thus
your subsequent marriage to a different person would likely be void.
Further, even if you were able to get a marriage license with a new partner,
you would then be in the position of having two legal spouses, which could make
you guilty of a crime,28 and would be a nightmare for the administration of
marital protections, which assume the existence of only one legal spouse.
Therefore, if you have previously joined in a civil union with a former
partner, you should have a dissolution proceeding before you get married. In
order to dissolve a civil union in Vermont, one of the parties must live there
for one year and file for divorce. Connecticut, New Hampshire and New Jersey also have a residency requirement for dissolving a civil union (see our publications Connecticut Civil Unions or New Hampshire Civil Unions or contact Lambda Legal at 212-809-8585 for information about New Jersey). In Massachusetts, several Probate & Family
Courts have granted a civil union dissolution,29 and while this is not a guarantee
that other courts will reach the same result, we see no legal impediment to
other courts doing so. It is important to note that while these cases are
brought in equity and are not strictly divorce cases, it may be that in order to
file for dissolution in Massachusetts, one party to a civil union must live here
for one year.
If you are unable to obtain a judicial dissolution, you may want to explore
with your attorney other ways to protect yourself. Other methods exist that
attempt to terminate the legal obligations of the civil union relationship, such
as an agreement between the parties in which the individuals commit that they
will not hold each other to those obligations. We have no idea how Massachusetts
or any other state would view such an agreement. Even if you are able to put
some of these protections in place, however, they do not sever the legal
relationship of civil union, and will thus likely not affect your ability or
inability to marry a subsequent partner. While such agreements may be able to
limit the obligations your civil union created, they cannot undo the legal
relationship itself. It is important to remember that this is still a developing
legal landscape, and it will likely take a while to sort out all of these
issues.
24 G.L. ch. 207, § 4.
25 15 Vt. Stats. Ann. § 4 (marriages contracted while either party has a living civil union spouse shall be void).
26 15 Vt. Stats. Ann. § 1202 (parties to a civil union may not be a party to another civil union or marriage).
27Conn. Public Act 05-10, § 2
28 G.L. ch. 207, § 4.
29 G.L. ch. 272, § 15.
30 Salucco v. Alldredge, No. 02E0087GC1, Judgment on Complaint for Dissolution of Civil Union (Mass. Prob. & Fam. Ct., Essex County, March 19, 2004) (granting dissolution under court’s equity jurisdiction, and applying standards applicable to divorce).
Can I get married in Massachusetts if I have
a California or Oregon Domestic Partnership?
Persons who are registered as domestic partners with the State of California (under A.B. 205) or the State of Oregon (under the Oregon Family Fairness Act) are arguably subject to the principles discussed above for civil unions. Thus, if you intend to marry the same person with whom you are registered in a California or Oregon Domestic Partnership, your legal status in California or Oregon would not prevent you from marrying in Massachusetts. However, if you have a California or Oregon Domestic Partnership with one person and wish to marry a different person, you should dissolve your domestic partnership first, even if a Massachusetts clerk may allow you to marry.
Can I get married in Massachusetts if I have
a Domestic Partnership?
The term “domestic partnership” has no universal definition. The exact meaning of the term and the rights and responsibilities accorded to persons in a domestic partnership vary, sometimes dramatically, from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. The clerks in Massachusetts have been instructed to interpret the term “domestic partnership” to mean only “a relationship that states create to provide certain rights, obligations, and benefits to people who either cannot, or do not want to, marry.” At present, the only states that convey such partnerships are California, Maine, Oregon and Washington (Hawaii has a reciprocal beneficiaries program which is similar).
On the Massachusetts marriage application form (i.e., the “Notice of Intention”), you will be asked whether you have a state-created domestic partnership, and if so, whether it has been dissolved. The Massachusetts clerk will not prevent you from marrying regardless of your answers to these questions, because the questions are being asked for statistical purposes only. However, if you intend to marry someone other than the person with whom you presently have a state or municipal domestic partnership, GLAD recommends that you formally dissolve the domestic partnership first. Further, if you marry the person with whom you have registered as domestic partners, your marriage may impact your domestic partnership status, so it is important to look into the law of the state or municipality where you previously registered.
What if I got married outside the United States (e.g., Canada, Spain, Belgium, the Netherlands, South Africa)?
Getting married in a country that allows same-sex couples to marry means you are legally married no matter where you go. As a legal matter, Massachusetts should respect you as married for all purposes. As a result, there is no reason for an already validly married couple to marry again, and, in fact, there might be reasons not to, as explained below. There is also a procedure for registering your foreign marriage in Massachusetts, if you were a resident of Massachusetts when you married.31 Your city or town clerk can explain the procedure. If you are seeking to marry a different person in Massachusetts, you must obtain a divorce before you will be eligible to do so.
Should you feel a need to try to marry the same person again in Massachusetts, nothing in the law expressly prevents you from doing so. As a practical matter, clerks may not process your application. The forms you must fill out to apply for a marriage license require you to state if you have previously been married, and if so, how that marriage ended. Consequently, the general practice of clerks has been not to allow already-married couples to complete the legal paperwork to renew their vows, regardless of any ceremony a couple might have.
In addition, even if you receive a license and are married again in Massachusetts, it is uncertain what the legal effect of the latter marriage would be. There is no case law on this in Massachusetts, but a 1925 opinion of the Attorney General suggests that, while there is no impediment to the issuance of a marriage license to two people already married to one another, if the earlier marriage is valid, the subsequent marriage has no legal effect.32
Conversely, getting married again in Massachusetts could be used as evidence that you believed your original foreign marriage was not valid, and thus could affect how a court or other entity would apply the protections of marriage to your relationship during the time period between the two marriages. For example, if you were to divorce, a judge might question whether property you acquired as a couple after you married outside the United States, but before you married in Massachusetts, is actually property of the marriage subject to equitable division.
31G.L. c. 207, sec. 36
32 Op. Att’y Gen., Oct. 16, 1925, p. 729.
What if we got married
in San Francisco, Multnomah County or another U.S. city?Given the unfortunate ruling of the California and Oregon Supreme Courts declaring the marriages of those same-sex couples who married in San Francisco or Multnomah County to be void, those couples should be able to marry in Massachusetts, provided they are residents or intended residents of Massachusetts, in light of the 1913 law. Couples in this situation should ask the Massachusetts clerk how they should complete the marriage application form (i.e., the “Notice of Intention”) in light of the fact that their prior marriage was dissolved by operation of law (and not by death, divorce or annulment). If you encounter difficulty obtaining a marriage license because of your prior, “voided” marriage, please contact GLAD.
If you seek to marry in Massachusetts after having married (the same person) in other places in the United States (i.e., New Paltz33, NY; New Mexico), Massachusetts clerks may refuse to issue you a license because you are already married and no court has declared anything to the contrary. Although it is possible that a court might invalidate your marriage, unless or until that happens, you are married. Accordingly, you should not deny the existence of your previous marriage, even when seeking to marry in Massachusetts. If you deny the existence of your previous marriage, you may be seen as misrepresenting your marital status on forms you must sign under oath. Moreover, as a practical matter, denying the validity of the marriage compromises your ability to assert that previous marriage as a basis for securing marital rights and protections that you may well need. Massachusetts clerks have been instructed to deny licenses to persons who have prior marriages that have not yet been terminated. It is not clear, however, how Massachusetts clerks will implement that instruction for same-sex couples with existing marriages from other United States jurisdictions. If you desire to remarry the same person in Massachusetts, please contact GLAD to assist you with the process.
33Although we are not aware of any litigation that has decided the status of the New Paltz marriages, the validity of these marriages is in question because they were not issued marriage licenses. Although there is a law in New York saying that a solemnized marriage is valid even when there wasn’t an actual license issued, it is not clear how that law would be applied to these marriages.
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