Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders

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DOMA Section 3 Challenge

Pedersen et al. v. Office of Personnel Management et al.   Gill et al. v. Office of Personnel Management et al.

Dean Hara

As a member of Congress, Gerry knew that federal discrimination would hurt us some day, and he worried about it -- and about me -- a lot.

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DOMA Stories:
Federal Marriage Discrimination Hurts Families

We have compiled 20 of these stories into a printable book, DOMA Stories: How Federal Marriage Discrimination Hurts American Families, which you can download by clicking on the image below.

GLAD is in court challenging the federal government's discrimination against legally married same-sex couples. In Gill v OPM and Pedersen v OPM, we represent couples and widowers who are harmed in various ways by DOMA. But DOMA hurts many more people than we can represent in these lawsuits.

In these stories, loving couples, widows and widowers, from all walks of life, describe how DOMA hurts their families.

Photograph of Barbara Levine-Ritterman & Robin Levine-Ritterman

NEW: So Much Love in the Room: A Couple Beats Cancer but not DOMA

Barbara Levine-Ritterman & Robin Levine-Ritterman

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A Widower’s Grief is Compounded by DOMA

Andrew Sorbo

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They Had No Idea Who I Had Lost

Rick Munroe

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Photograph of Jerry Savoy & John Weiss

We’re a Family, Just Like the Family Across the Street

Jerry Savoy & John Weiss

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Nowhere to Hide From DOMA’s Discrimination

Beth Ryan & Jenny O’Flaherty

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And I Loved Him

Jerry Passaro

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The Secret to Their Success: ‘Us’ is Bigger Than ‘Me’

Tommy Beale & Gerard Hayward

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From Friendship to Romance Nothing Stands in their Way – Except DOMA

Lisa Block & Marian Rewcastle

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Photograph of Kate Tyndall & Debra Grossman

In the Eyes of the Federal Government, We Don’t Even Exist

Kate Tyndall & Debra Grossman

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They’re Not Property, They’re My Family

Geraldine Artis & Suzanne Artis

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You Can’t Put Off ‘Til Tomorrow Because You Don’t Know What Tomorrow Will Bring

Joanne Pedersen & Ann Meitzen

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Their Love Conquers All - Except DOMA

Daisy Chamberlain & Jamie Chamberlain

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The Family:  Michael, Carlos and Linda

Carlos Tejera & Michael Anthony

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We’re Still Living

Kristi Voelkerding & Donna Leria

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The Drip, Drip, Drip of DOMA’s Disrespect

Leslie Horst & Louise Forrest

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Border Crossings

Judy Paiva & Sandy Ansell

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Life is Good, Except for DOMA

Mary McCarthy & Bonnie Winokar

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Hart-Break or Happy Ever After for Binational Couple?

Laurie Hart & Caroline Hart

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We Love Traditional Marriage!

Ailsa Wu & Kate Herman

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Family: That’s What We Are

David Wilson & Rob Compton

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Photograph of Annette Whitehead-Pleaux & Amy Whitehead-Pleaux

Love Makes a Family

Annette Whitehead-Pleaux & Amy Whitehead-Pleaux

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Photograph of Brian Khoo & David Colton

Uncertainty Clouds a Lasting Love

Brian Khoo & David Colton

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So Much Can Change in One Day

Jonathan Knight & Marlin Nabors

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DOMA decision: discuss!

Bette Jo Green & Jo Ann Whitehead

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DOMA Decision Dispatch: Plaintiffs Share Their Reactions

Gill v. Office of Personnel Management Plaintiffs

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Two dads, two kids, two dogs and DOMA: Which one doesn’t belong?

Thorsten Behrens & Christopher Schiebel

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DOMA ‘just doesn’t make sense’

BJ Weiss & Marty Downs

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A Hero’s Unwelcome

Tom Casey Hopkins & Darrel Hopkins

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Despite Our Differences

Oliver Sun & Glenn Miliken

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Paying the Price For Inequality

Marlin Nabors & Jonathan Knight

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Photograph of Suzanne Smith & Chris Parrish

Marriage is More Than a Legal Document

Suzanne Smith & Chris Parrish

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DOMA is Taxing Our Children’s Future

Mary Ritchie & Kathy Bush

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Truth Depends On a Walk Around the Lake

Dick Rubinstein

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Waiting for the Discrimination to End

Christina Renaud & Shelley Renaud

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We’re There For Each Other Through Thick and Thin

Alice Halstead & Joan Cousins

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Still a Lucky Man

Jay Toupin

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DOMA Makes Us Feel Erased

Bette Jo Green & Jo Ann Whitehead

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There is Nothing to Fear From Marriage Equality

Steve Kleinedler

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Photograph of Nancy Gill & Marcelle Letourneau

DOMA Has Limited Our Choices and Affected Our Kids

Nancy Gill & Marcelle Letourneau

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Our Lives and Dreams Are at the Mercy of DOMA

Niles da Silva & Thiago da Silva

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Jumping in the Deep End of the Pool

Paul Ruseau & Bob Ruseau

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I Owe It to Her Memory to Continue Fighting This

Jacqueline Murphy

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Photograph of Rebecca Rehm & Judi Burgess

A Very Ordinary Family

Rebecca Rehm & Judi Burgess

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