Someone Stood Up
Sitting in the packed committee room, listening to the animated testimony from both sides of the effort to repeal the New Hampshire marriage equality law passed last June, I found myself experiencing a range of emotions. While the ignorance expressed was infuriating at times, it was inspiring to hear from the many gay couples who demonstrated immense courage by speaking publicly about their lives, in front of their legislators and neighbors. They reminded everyone that they live normal lives as couples and families; feeding the dogs and cats in the morning, making the coffee, getting the kids ready for school, and paying taxes. After the passage of the marriage equality bill, they felt that their relationships were truly validated, and finally given the “same pride, recognition and legal status” as those of straight couples.
Those in favor of the repeal bill levied the same old arguments against marriage equality – it isn’t natural, it confuses children, it goes against God’s will, it will eventually lead to people marrying their pets, the world will end, etc.
I also noticed a different theme during the day, one which has become prevalent on the national stage as well in recent months. Several speakers, claiming a mandate on the marriage equality issue state-wide and nation-wide, argued that the passage of the bill constituted oppressive overreaching by a tyrannical government. These speakers fervently admonished the committee members for ignoring the will of the people, and for neglecting their duties as representatives. Sadly, these tirades brought the only applause of the day from the crowded audience.
But, amidst the hostility and zealotry, several speakers eloquently testified against the repeal bill, including African-American Rep. Levesque. She referenced the anti-miscegenation laws that existed in several states not so long ago, which would have prevented her from marrying her husband, had these laws not been repealed thanks to the efforts of a few determined individuals. She reminded those listening that the fight for civil rights on behalf of minority communities has a long history, and one which is often led by the few willing to challenge the many. She told the committee that she was testifying out of a sense of duty, because 150 years ago, “someone spoke for me, someone stood up.”
Progress is possible when leaders decide that someone must take a stand and honor the values of freedom, justice and equality, even in the face of significant opposition. Allegiance to these principals inspired individuals to speak out and stand up against slavery, discrimination, and anti-miscegenation laws, while there were those determined to block each and every step towards equality. Last June, the New Hampshire legislature stood up and spoke for the gay and lesbian people of their state, in recognition of a similar calling. I am proud to be interning with an organization that played an active role in this achievement.
New Hampshire’s elected officials took bold action to protect the rights of gay and lesbian citizens in their state, knowing that some of their constituents disagreed with them and that it could cost them re-election. That isn’t tyranny – it’s doing what is right.
Sean P. Malloy is a Legal Intern with GLAD